A Tanta massage is a tender massage where your entire body is massaged and touched gently and lovingly. This with the main purpose of allowing you to enjoy and to experience feelings of love, joy and happiness. The gravity of life on earth makes way for an ecstatic feeling.
The massage I give is not based on the theory of Tantra, but comes from my heart and is intuitive. It is mainly about unconditional love, warmth and tenderness. Enjoying your body, being able to surrender completely and coming out of your head are central in this massage.
The oil is wonderfully warm, the touch flowing and soft. I give all my attention and love in the massage.
What can you expect?
Introduction and connecting ritual
If you come to see me for the very first time, getting to know each other is very important. This will create a basis of trust that is necessary to surrender more during the massage. We will therefore always start the session with a cup of tea. In the conversation we can elaborate on what is going on in your life and where you need insight or healing. After the introductory meeting we do a brief moment of rest and a connecting ritual to get all the way into the here and now and open our hearts to each other. Then the massage starts:
Trust and surrender
I am the giver of the massage and you the receiver. The more you can surrender to the touch of my hands, the more intense the experience will be. This is actually the challenge that matters: to surrender and trust. If you dare to sink into this, you will experience the highest happiness and the deepest satisfaction. In practice (private and work) this will make it easier for you to surrender to what IS and you will flow along instead of controlling.
During the massage the sexual energy | life energy is generated and spread throughout your body. This not only gives an ecstatic feeling, but also new vitality. Afterwards you feel more vital and reborn.
After the massage there is still time for exchanging experiences, asking questions and to drink some water.
A tantra massage is an intensive and special experience where your heart is touched and will open. With an open heart you become a more loving person, a person with more compassion.
This is a massage on the massage table.
The session lasts 2 hours.
This is a massage on the massage mat. It is a more intense experience and a bit more intimate than on the massage table.
The session lasts 2 hours or 2.5 hours (or longer if desired)
Extra's to book
This is a sacred cleansing moment and takes place prior to the tantra massage. It is a wonderfully relaxed ritual to be cleansed not only physically, but also energetically. I wash your whole body with attention and dedication.
SACRED SPOT MASSAGE
This is a massage of the prostate, which can give a wonderful sensation and intense arousal. The massage can be done externally, only anus and perineum, or, if desired, also internally. If you can surrender it can lead to multiple internal orgasms without ejaculation. Not everyone likes this, which is why it is optional. You can also let me know during the massage.
To retain the nice feeling of the massage, we can still hug / hold / caress / touch each other on the massage mat afterwards. This can be done in conversation or in silence, whatever you prefer.
FOUR HANDS MASSAGE
For an even more intense experience you can opt for a four-hand massage, given by me together with my colleague Thera. We will cherish and touch you with love. Your head can no longer follow it. This requires total surrender.
You can choose a session on the massage table or on the massage mat.
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SESSIONS FOR COUPLES
Do you want to give your relationship a new impulse? Or do you have something to celebrate? Are you looking for depth in your sex life together with your partner? Do you need to learn the 'techniques' of tantra massage? I and / or my colleague David give different sessions for couples.
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Some more things:
- I accept you as you are. It doesn't matter what you look like or how old you are.
- You can talk to me openly, also about difficult things. I am discreet and you will certainly feel safe with me.
- Mutual respect and equality are of paramount importance to me.
- You will be pampered and cherished by me. You don't have to do anything. Only to undergo and enjoy, without having to have the idea or feeling to give or give something back to me.
- The massage has nothing to do with eroticism or sex. But with your own sexual energy. Above all it is about human warmth and loving, healing energy.
- Some practical information if we have an appointment.
In a session there is no longer any ego, no urge to perform, no mask, no play, no must or condemnation, no norms and values of others, of what is and what is not allowed. You can be yourself, exactly as you are.
Why a tantra massage?
The power of loving touch
People have an innate need for physical intimacy. Nothing is more important for your emotional, physical and intellectual development than a warm hug or loving touch.
We often maintain tension in our body, so that the energy no longer flows properly. If this tension persists longer, then we get physical complaints. Thanks to the massage, the tension in your body gives way to a deep feeling of relaxation.
Vitality and zest for life
In addition to stress and too little contact, we may also have to deal with tiredness, lack of zest for life and have trouble with daily worries. Your life energy is activated again in the massage. This is done by generating the sexual energy, which will give you an ecstatic feeling. This experience will be felt for days.
Sexual energy is life energy. If your sexual energy flows, then your life flows.